I can see why J said that when Lou started talking he realized he didn’t like Lou that much. Lou sounds like a psycho. "J was mean to me so I want to kill him!" Uh, which is worse, kicking a nut out of your band or killing someone for it, I wonder. No moral dilemna there, at least for a semi-normal person. I can relate anyway, I’ve never had more than a very few friends and it’s because the more I have gotten to know people, usually (but not always) the less I want to be around them. I think I would have dumped Lou also, but probably sooner. J’s music improved vastly when he tore that monkey off his back and started playing his heart. If that last post is accurate, I just lost what little respect I might have harbored for that pitiful crybaby.